how my family is taking me being trans
dad: completely supportive and not weird. exactly what i wanted.
mom: weird but "supportive"????? she is very fucking weird about it and sometimes creepy. she kind of doesnt want me to be transgender and its obvious and she wants me to sit down with her and look at drag queens and tries to answer peoples questions about me and is completely wrong doing so. she is also always prying about my relationships and my sexuality. its weird.
older brother: doesnt want to hear a thing about me being trans and gets angry whenever i mention it. one time he started a fight with me and i pointed out that ive only mentioned one thing about me being trans once every day and he kinda saw that he was being ridiculous but its really obvious he doesn't want me to be trans. i also asked him to call me by my name and he says he doesn't want to do that and i told him ive been out of the closet for over half a year now and its getting kinda silly and i dont know if hes ever going to be ready at all and he started getting really mad about that.
younger brother: supports me. calls me by my name. completely awesome. doesn't invade on my privacy too much. kind of like my dad except he calls me by my name.
youngest brother: transphobe. makes a lot of fun of me for being trans. sometimes lays his hands on me. probably the worst of them all.
btw if you haven't noticed my mom has a lot of kids
even older brother: he freaked out when he saw my facebook post and called my mom and my sister about it asking all sorts of questions. he asked stuff like if ive ever had a girlfriend before and my mom told him i did and that ive had sex a few times etc etc. he says he loves me but that i am his brother and he doesnt want to ever call me anything but my deadname. i had a talk with him about it. his wife is on my side and says she'll make sure he puts an effort into understanding and accepting me. shes amazing ❤️
sister: she is completely accepting of me. she didnt run her mouth to anyone about anything and was very private and respectful of me. i can probably depend on her a lot
one of my "best friends" from highschool: hates me. apparently never liked me. calls me a tranny. i might go kick his ass.
my actual best friend from highschool: supportive. treats me the same. doesn't think im a weirdo.
other close friend from hs: supportive. even willing to use my name. makes fun of me for being trans sometimes but ik hes just fooling around.