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  1. What games are you currently playing?

    Just bought Dragon Quest 11 yesterday. So far I’m liking it. It’s been a while since I’ve played a classic turn based rpg
  2. Banjo-Kazooie

    This game was the shit
  3. Abyssmegalo

    that would be insane. Sac off your opponents monster then attack directly
  4. The title kind of says it all. I'm pretty unsure what to do at this point. I recently moved to a new state and didn't know very many people. One night I met this girl who was decently attractive and we hit it off. We've been hanging out for about 2-3 weeks now, but since the first night she stayed over at my place I knew something was off. After a while she opened up to me and told me that she was addicted to heroin for about a year and she is currently on a generic form of Xanax (Prescribed by a doctor, but still). Everyday she has to drive to a clinic for methadone and occasionally during the day she slightly nods out/talks weird. She isn't doing it as bad as someone who is currently using. I fully believe that she isn't still using because we've spent entire days together and it still happens sometimes. Usually when she's sitting still not doing much. Sh's cute and the sex is pretty decent but I feel like I can hardly have intelligence conversations. She's a nice girl and I think I like her a little, but I don't know what to do and I'd like to hear other people's thoughts. Part of me thinks I'm just with her because I don't know many people and she stops me from being lonely/horny. Another part of me things that if I just give her time then eventually everything would be okay. However I've never used hard drugs or had any issues like this in my life and I think inviting her into my life will ultimately add these types of situations into my life which I don't want. Should I wait it out and see if she gets better? Should i just stop talking to her because it'll likely add bad situations into my life? Should i use the situation while I can to get some nuts in and end it with her later? I don't wanna be an asshole to her because I'm sure she's struggling but I feel like it'll put a damper in my well-being. What should I do? What would you do? Do you have any experience with this?
  5. Would you date a recovering addict?

    I agree with your first statement. I wanted to be there for her, but couldn't be everything holding her together. She has to be strong enough to stand on her own. #2 I definitely don't disagree with you. I do get hung up on people's past which I know isn't fair and completely hypocritical and appreciate you calling me out on it. I do need to work on that. That being said though, wouldn't you say there's SOME past mistakes that matter? Things like a girlfriend having a lot of partners/past marriages/baggage in general is fine and expected. I don't think I'm being obsessive/insecure because i'm worried about somebody who was addicted to hard drugs for being faithful/loyal or scared that they wont do the drugs again. Am I actually being insecure because I'm worried about that and not just cautious? It's not like she's been clean for 5 years or something. She's been clean for less than 200 days. If you think I'm just being insecure (Which I'm not arguing against. Simply asking) what kinds of issues would you say actually cause alarm when looking at someones past? You sorta hit the nail on the head for the last part. I'm new to the town and don't have a lot of friends here so I found this girl and settled at the time. I don't think it's fair to say that I didn't love/interested in her though. I only knew her for a short period of time before posting this thread so of course I wasn't in love with her and I'd like to think that if I wasn't interested I wouldn't of made this thread to begin with, but I could be wrong about that part. We haven't completely ended things but we haven't actually started dating either. Right now we are friends who hang out occasionally. Not sure whats going to happen in the future but that's where its at currently. She's for sure sucked a lot of time and opportunity though so I'll give you that.
  6. Would you date a recovering addict?

    We were hanging out the other day and I ended up going to one of her group sessions with her (apparently once a week). I was just in the waiting room but fuck I didn’t like the vibe of that room or being there. I think you guys might be right. It’s not that I don’t like her, but it’s just one hassle after another. It might be wrong of me but when hanging out with her sometimes I just think about this chick doing hard drugs and I don’t know if I can shake that. If I can’t give it 100% it’s not worth waiting my time or hers.
  7. Would you date a recovering addict?

    Hey man thanks for the advice! Also you know this thread isn’t nearly as bad as that one lol. This thread seems like a fair question.
  8. Would you date a recovering addict?

    To be fair I hired the nerd guy and he fucking sucked and lost his job within a month.
  9. How often do people play Goats on Duelingbook? This is the first time I've signed up for Book and the new ygo is gay. I might wanna play goats from time to time
  10. Would you date a recovering addict?

    I guess I know this, but it just seems hard for me to impliment. I don't mind having a relationship that's difficult. Most of them are. This is a different kind of difficult though. Am I an asshole if I simply want nothing to do with that life though? I'm telling myself that if she ever used again that I'd walk away instantly but it's only been a few weeks. I don't want to be together for a year then a relapse happens because I feel like it wouldn't be fair to just leave at that point. I'm not sure if I'm thinking selfishly or justifiably. I do like the girl but you pretty much hit the nail on the head with "Dumb broken girl" When her symptoms aren't showing she's awesome. Smart and funny and sassy but once they start showing she becomes a wreck sometimes I wish I were somewhere else. Thinking of the future she doesn't seem like somebody I'd exactly want to bring home to mom and have my mom ask why she's passing out at 3pm. Also unfortunately she wouldn't have sex with me until we were dating which I GUESS is something good but it does rule out trying to turn it into a fwb situation. I probably should ask about her being tested. She might get offended but I don't think exactly has the right to be offended given her past. We've had sex probably 6 or 7 times and we've used condoms everytime except once. The other night she had a panic attack and we just kinda stayed in bed there until she was fine but I'm sure that wont even be close to the "worst case scenario"
  11. kim jong un is a piece of shit
  12. I don't really like you that much. I've mainly been sticking around because you have a heated underground pool.
  13. YCS Secaucus Tournament Report

    holy shit 29 cents off thats crazy
  14. zRatsonz here!

    rude
  15. Finding a card

    issa spell
  16. Duel Links News - Whats Next

    I see a lot of people hating on Gold Sarcophagus. I think it's too slow to play multiples but I've been liking 1 copy in certain decks. Being able to search Treacherous Trap Hole seems not too shabby. I agree with Slyvans. Even now I wouldn't say it was undoubtedly the best and it for significant weaker. Amazoness lost both econs most likely. I'm guessing if the battle phase becomes bigger than we could just add extra copies of Offering/Super Rush. Spellbooks are fine I guess I just don't want to go though the mini box a 3rd time.
  17. Duel Links News - Whats Next

    Any thoughts on the new ban/limited list?
  18. Turn A Video Game Into A Film

    Why hasnt there been a Metroid (Samus) Movie? I'm sure it missed it's chance but it would of been awesome.
  19. Stop wasting time playing video games and eating shit food. don't be so scared to take chances. being introverted is boring af. take the gym seriously.
  20. 0 atk monsters

    If something with 0 attack is destroyed by battle while in attack position he takes all of the difference in attack points as damage.
  21. Help with Blue Eyes deck

    I would start with 3 copies of Blue-Eyes White Dragon.
  22. Sylvan - Discussion

    Sylvans are retarded. It's the best Pvp deck and if you add a Winged Dragon of Ra it becomes the best farming deck. They can do it all.
  23. In one of my classes we drew topics out of a hat for our research papers. I ended up getting one of the most difficult ones (i think) on finding information for. I have to figure out and argue how the Death Penalty negatively affects the sustainability of the environment. My professor is well aware that the topic is more of a difficult one and is willing to give me some slack as long as I can come up with some creative ideas for it. I've done a little bit of research so far and I'm not seeing a whole lot of correlation between the two. If anyone can help me think of some ideas I can expand on that would be the tits. I just need some decent ideas to spring off of.
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