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packdaddy    737
1. fat ass/good convo every day = date this winter break
2. cute/mixed but looks white/different = fucking this winter break, always wanted to, never happened yet
3. just got out of a relationship but is the hottest of all three = idk if we're going to hang out for a while cause of "time needed", yknow how that is... but i see a future there

for once in my life i can safely say i have options with women. it's pretty unbelievable actually

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fake    4788
vday pathetic bump edition 
 
pls evaulate my situation . im the rebound :

she went out with him october - january
i started talking to her daily since mid november 
they broke up after xmas got back together day after
broke up again week after new years
during the fight he told her shes stupid and to die 
she said that shit hurt but 
they still talk he tells her he loves her and she said she wouldnt get back together with him 
and that those comments killed her
they still talk tho and hes tryn get her back obv 
i talk to her daily flirting heavily since last month
nothing official 
we're nothing but sweet to each other we never argue etc idk if im enough tho


i think im in an awful position
should i bother trying to make it official between all this mess
 
 

is being the rebound an auto losing situation 
im not writing it off as nothing more yet but ya know bout them doubts

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Wilson    12516

A girl from work, we had lunch together last week and it went well.

I asked here to go the Museum on Saturday and she said yes, I hope she thinks this is a date though.

I'm probably way overthinking everything.

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Aaron    2028

vday pathetic bump edition 
 
pls evaulate my situation . im the rebound :

she went out with him october - january
i started talking to her daily since mid november 
they broke up after xmas got back together day after
broke up again week after new years
during the fight he told her shes stupid and to die 
she said that shit hurt but 
they still talk he tells her he loves her and she said she wouldnt get back together with him 
and that those comments killed her
they still talk tho and hes tryn get her back obv 
i talk to her daily flirting heavily since last month
nothing official 
we're nothing but sweet to each other we never argue etc idk if im enough tho


i think im in an awful position
should i bother trying to make it official between all this mess
 
 

is being the rebound an auto losing situation 
im not writing it off as nothing more yet but ya know bout them doubts

 

 

truth is sounds likes she hooked on this guy.

 

have you fucked her yet? TBH it feels like you're far more invested in this girl than she is with you. 

 

if you're not that emotionally invested, go for it. you have nothing to lose.

if you're emotionally invested, i'd take a step back because you'll get your heart broken. 

 

being the rebound is not a losing situation but you have to really make sure she doesn't like her ex... and if they're still talking, she still likes him despite all the shit shes thrown at him. 

 

a relationship drawn out of drama and complications is always.. well complicated and you don't want that. you could try being straight up with her but a lot of guys look like a little bitch when they do that. i'd just take things as they are, keep making out with her or banging her and not try to force whats between to you two down the official direction.

 

honestly making something official is usually:

1) cos the girl wants to

2) cos the guy is scared/threatened so wants to make it exclusive 

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fake    4788

that makes sense shes still hooked on him yep shes def on the fence still making up her mind im not invested emotionally i will sever our bond and pretend she doesnt exist if she gives their relationship another chance

but at the same time i wanna prevent that so i guess  [s]plan official[/s] plan bang  will be set in motion 

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Wilson    12516

A girl from work, we had lunch together last week and it went well.

I asked here to go the Museum on Saturday and she said yes, I hope she thinks this is a date though.

I'm probably way overthinking everything.

 

I feel like I'm 17 again, I haven't been this nervous about a girl in ages.

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fake    4788

make it known youre interested in her

ask her if she has a boyfriend within the first hr 

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Wilson    12516

make it known youre interested in her

ask her if she has a boyfriend within the first hr 

 

She told me that she's single, and I'm something like 90% sure she's interested.

but yeah, there's still a bit of doubt, I should know by saturday though.

she's one of the prettiest bitches I've ever seen so that's probably why I feel so uncertain.

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Aaron    2028

that makes sense shes still hooked on him yep shes def on the fence still making up her mind im not invested emotionally i will sever our bond and pretend she doesnt exist if she gives their relationship another chance

but at the same time i wanna prevent that so i guess  plan official plan bang  will be set in motion 

 

ive been in a situation like urs and i sacked her off... all i can say is im not comfortable being someones second choice or being in the situation where i'm dependant on her casting votes for or against me like shes simon cowell. i don't think "love" or being in a relationship should be a competition. it should be something more than that. 

 

after sacking her off, she came back to me and it was all good for a while until we parted ways. 

 

one thing i'll stress is if you're going to sack her off.. don't be angry about it. be calm and don't be horrible or passive aggressive against her. being the smaller pettier person isn't attractive. 

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vday pathetic bump edition 
 
pls evaulate my situation . im the rebound :

she went out with him october - january
i started talking to her daily since mid november 
they broke up after xmas got back together day after
broke up again week after new years
during the fight he told her shes stupid and to die 
she said that shit hurt but 
they still talk he tells her he loves her and she said she wouldnt get back together with him 
and that those comments killed her
they still talk tho and hes tryn get her back obv 
i talk to her daily flirting heavily since last month
nothing official 
we're nothing but sweet to each other we never argue etc idk if im enough tho


i think im in an awful position
should i bother trying to make it official between all this mess
 
 

is being the rebound an auto losing situation 
im not writing it off as nothing more yet but ya know bout them doubts

 

rebound is auto disadvantage

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herbie ✌    1340

I guess this seems like the place to post.

 

I've just moved into my room at uni maybe a week and straight away I noticed this cute as fuck, god tier chinese chick that's in the same building as me.

 

I only know the names of like 4 people who live here just because it feels like I'm in the place with the quietest people, and these guys are always out in the loungeroom watching TV so I kinda talk to them.

 

So yeah, everyone kinda keeps to their rooms and shit, which means I've only really said hi to her when I'm in the kitchen doing dishes or out the front door having a smoke.

I don't even know her name or anything and obviously by now you can tell I'm not the kind to approach people and start conversation.

 

How the fuck do I start this shit?

I was thinking of just getting everyone in the dorm to have some drinks together in some lame ass attempt to come out and chat but iunno, it's not really like high school anymore.

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fake    4788

 introduce urself to everyone or knock on their doors if theyre left open n do that

do it to all ur neighbors say u just moved in 

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JackAtlas    469

These 1 month exchange students are making me lose my sanity. This happens every year. :/

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herbie ✌    1340
My most recent ex is philo, which I would consider a gateway asian.

The chick I was talking about seems to be randomly striking up conversation with me though which is cool, but I think I'm gonna get out of the habit of having girl approach me, it worked in high school but now that I've stopped surfing/football its definitely not as easy anymore.

And I'm kinda having second thoughts about this, the whole shitting where you eat expression applies here.
So I'm just gonna be friendly now and maybe try to root her wheny lease is closer to finishing.

Edit: plz ignore the formatting, posting on my phone does that for some reason.

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